xfs: fixes for the block mapping checker [v26.1]

This series amends the file extent map checking code so that nonexistent
cow/attr forks get the ENOENT return they're supposed to; and fixes some
incorrect logic about the presence of a cow fork vs. reflink iflag.

This has been running on the djcloud for years with no problems.  Enjoy!

Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <djwong@kernel.org>