xfs: detect incorrect gaps in rmap btree [v24.5]

Following in the theme of the last two patchsets, this one strengthens
the rmap btree record checking so that scrub can count the number of
space records that map to a given owner and that do not map to a given
owner.  This enables us to determine exclusive ownership of space that
can't be shared.

Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <djwong@kernel.org>