xfs: Changes for 5.19-rc1 [2nd set]

This update includes:
- fix refcount leak in xfs_ifree()
- fix xfs_buf_cancel structure leaks in log recovery
- fix dquot leak after failed quota check
- fix a couple of problematic ASSERTS
- fix small aim7 perf regression in from new btree sibling
  validation
- clean up log incompat feature marking for new logged attribute
  feature
- disallow logged attributes on legacy V4 filesystem formats.
- fix da state leak when freeing attr intents
- improve validation of the attr log items in recovery
- use slab caches for commonly used attr structures
- fix leaks of attr name/value buffer and reduce copying overhead
  during intent logging
- remove some dead debug code from log recovery